Indian literature is full of human expressions, human potential, and stories about human mistakes and their handling. When I say itihāsa, I mean Ramayan and Mahabharat epics which are one of the oldest recorded histories of mankind. These two epics are full of episodes that are too relatable in the present and will be relatable in the future too, There is a reason why we call it part of the Sanātana knowledge system which roughly translates as “eternal” in English.
Let’s jump to the part I want to tell about. Let’s go through two small stories for the context.
In Ramayan, withstanding one’s own commitment is considered one of the highest virtue or ideal for all beings. King Dashrath commits 3 promises to his most loved queen Kaikeyi which resulted in Shri Ram’s exile into the woods for 14 long years. Shri Ram gives commitment to Sugreev that he will help him get his wife and punish Bali. Shri Ram gives Mata Sita a commitment that he will never marry any other woman even when it was tradition among kingships. Similarly, there are many other episodes are there where Raghukul people have given their commitment and stood by it till death. You might have heard at least once in your lifetime about this saying coming down to date, “Raghukul reet sadaa chali aayi, Pran Jaye par vachan na jaye”. That means it is the long tradition that, if a person from the Raghu clan gives a commitment, he will not break it even if he has to face death.
When the Treta yug ended and Dwapar came, there happened the Mahabharat.
In Mahabharat, the ideal of withstanding with own commitment was still the highest for a person. People who are considered wise always stayed firm on their commitment and tried to fulfill it as their highest duty on earth. But, by the time Dwapar Yug came, many people became corrupt. There were people with sharp minds and evil hearts who used these wise men to meet their ends by making a wise commit for something by fraud. I will mention three small stories of such episodes where commitments or promises of wise people were used by wicked persons.
The first story is Pitamah Bhishma. He was one of the strongest as well as wisest characters in the whole of Mahabharat. He has vowed that he will always be a servant of the crown and will never go against it. Not only this, he will protect the crown at any cost. It is this commitment because of which he kept quiet and didn’t raise his voice against Duryodhana when he was trying to undress Draupadi in court. It was this commitment that made him fight against Pandavas even when he knew on whose side righteousness is. Because of this commitment, Bhishma did not become king, and incapable people like Vichitravirya, and Dhritrastra got the kingdom.
The second story is of Guru Drona, he too has promised that he will not go against Kaurvas and was quiet on Duryodhana’s attempt to undress Draupadi. He fought along with vicious Kaurvas because of his commitment to them.
The third story is about Shalya. Shalya was the maternal uncle of two of the Pandavas, Nakul and Sahdev. He was coming to join the army of Pandvas but Shakuni deceived him by hospitability in the way and made him commit that he will fight along with them. Consequently, he fought against his own sister’s sons.
By comparing the above two Yugas, we can clearly see that even though standing by own commitment is the highest virtue, it can be misused by wicked people in many circumstances. So what is the way then??
Giving the highest moral status to it might be solving many problems in Treta Yug but the same solution is creating problems in Dwapar Yug.
Can giving weight to breaking promises and commitments be a way out?
Absolutely not !!! Because that will only worsen the social situation. then what ??
All the morals, ethics, and values are needed to make the society to be more ordered, organized and to minimize conflicts and injustice. So these are the real cause and roots of moral ideas. If moral ideas are not aligned with these, they are of no use. So the commitment which is leading to disharmony and grave injustice, is better broken. Krishna did not entertain Shakuni by preaching and following hollow ideals which could be used against righteous people. But he played with him in the opponent’s own way.
Below are the things we can learn from this whole writing,
- A solution to a problem may become a problem itself in the coming time, but that doesn’t mean we start discarding the solution immediately. The need here is to rethink the root cause which led us to this solution and to make appropriate modifications to make it more relatable in prevailing situations.
- Sometimes it’s better to break old traditions or old ways to replace them with better ones that can solve our problems sustainably if it is not serving the original purpose.
Dhanyawad.
